Do I love you? You ask this as if a woman who didn’t would be doing the crazy things I am. And you don’t see it. And I have accepted that the universe does this party trick called “right person wrong time”. Sadly at the end of this trick, there is no “ahhhh” or “aha!” just silence. Deafening silence. Or a bunch of whatsapp statuses trying to hurt you and a bunch of cuss words because proper words fail when your heart is breaking.
Do I love you? Do you hear my heart being skinned off of its flesh? No. No you don’t. Partially deaf? We’ll never know. Here is a picture: It sounds like breathless sobs being cut short by empty promises and being stabbed in the throat by lies and betrayal of trust. Communication is key huh? Yeah, so you drive the key into my chest- silence, your favourite language. I have not even the slightest of energy to make a loud cry. No point, when my tears fall shamefully into the palm of the man who seems to not see. Not see anything wrong with his actions.
Do I love you? You ask like I haven’t stood there and watched you do with her, all the things I wish you would with me. And stayed loyal to a fault. Now I wish I hadn’t. Now my loyalty, once a quality I was so proud of is the reason for my pain; my disappointment and my anger.
Do I love you? With everything said above, I have concluded that… I cannot give anything more. Whatever love is to you, pursue it. Maybe, maybe our definitions differ. While mine consists of openly communicating with clarity and honesty, yours is about carefully crafting things so much, you run out of the love component and hurt people instead.
Do I love you? After this? Maybe about time I keep something to myself. You might just be the best collection of poetry. And I’ll name it, “Things my daughter needs to know about men like you”.